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Most friendships are not ended; they are neglected — allowed to cool until reaching out feels like a big deal, and then neglected a little more. The fix is not guilt; it is a rhythm. You already know, roughly, how often you would ideally talk to each important person in your life. This calculator compares that rhythm against how long it has actually been, tells you honestly whether the friendship is on track, in a quiet patch, or at risk of fading — and what to do about it this week. Close bonds absorb long silences far better than you fear, but only if someone restarts the clock.
A gentle, honest check on the friendships you want to keep: how long it has been, how overdue you are by your own standard, and what to do this week — because close bonds absorb silence far better than you fear.
There is no universal limit — it depends on the rhythm you two actually share. This calculator compares the real gap against your own stated ideal, which is a fairer measure than any rule of thumb.
Yes, remarkably well. Close bonds absorb long silences, and reconnection is usually warmer than people predict — the risk is only that nobody makes the first move.
No — that is a recipe for burnout. Rotate: actively maintain one or two friendships a month, and let one-sided ties fade without guilt.
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